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SOUTHERN STEMS

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Floral design with a touch of Southern elegance

We design with softness, simplicity, and a love for natural beauty. Every arrangement is crafted to feel elevated, inviting, and wrapped in that signature touch of Southern Charm.

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We’re proud to bloom in Kansas City and Oklahoma City, creating floral moments that feel playful, heartfelt, and beautifully one-of-a-kind. From weddings and showers to corporate events and everything in between, we’re here to make your event tell a story.

Our Services

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Pick Up Orders

Celebrating something sweet or simply craving fresh blooms? Our pick-up options are perfect for bouquets, boutonnieres, wrist corsages, and small arrangements for showers, parties, and everyday moments. Dreamy, seasonal blooms crafted with love—ready for you to grab, gift, or enjoy.

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Full Service Weddings

Designed for couples dreaming big. From lush bouquets to magical installations, we handle every floral detail with creativity, care, and a whole lot of excitement. Your love story deserves to bloom beautifully—and we’re here to make it unforgettable.

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Corporate/Non Profit Events

From galas to brand launches to community celebrations, we create elevated, joy-filled floral designs that bring your event to life. Whether you want bold, soft, modern, or whimsical, we’ll craft florals that match your vision and make your guests feel inspired.

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Get To Know Southern Stems

 

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I’m Deborah Whitebird, founder of Southern Stems, a floral design studio born from a lifelong love of art, beauty, and the stories flowers can tell. For more than fifteen years, I’ve been creating floral designs that feel alive—full of movement, color, and soul.

 

I’m a proud Native American from the Cheyenne and Arapaho Tribes of Oklahoma.  Rooted in Oklahoma, I come from a long line of artists, and their creativity has influenced how I see art and how I carry forward our Native American traditions.  Floral design is living art and the way I express my artistic voice.  I split my time between Missouri and Oklahoma, deeply committed to giving back to the people who shaped my life by supporting tribal growth and the long-term sustainability of our community.

I carry with me a deep sense of gratitude for this work — a chance to turn nature’s fleeting beauty into something meaningful for each client.

Every arrangement is a collaboration, a celebration, and a quiet offering of gratitude. It’s a privilege to do what I love — to create beauty that moves people and moments that linger long after the flowers have faded.

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"Deb made our florals and centerpieces bigger and more beautiful than we could have ever imagined"

FALLON C.

Explore our World of Blooms

Welcome to my portfolio — a collection of floral stories that celebrate beauty, emotion, and artistry. Each design reflects the heart of our clients and the joy of creating something uniquely theirs.

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